That was before I was exposed to any emotional transference work. It was amazing, thinking back to that time and realizing how hard I had to address each of the idiosyncracies when now, it takes less than an hour to change and even remove emotional trauma.
The process is called NESTing, Neuro Emotional antiSabotage Technique. It is effective with all people from every background and every situation. In fact, they don’t even have to be aware of wanting to change. The process isolates the incident that has the most drastic or impactful effect.
Often the recipient doesn’t even need to know what to change of their behavior or what specific event triggers a prominent emotional occurrence that needs to be addressed.
Over the years, I have had to overcome many issues, including an abandonment issue even though my parents were always together. When I was nearly four, my mother was pregnant with my brother, she was 42 years old. She was also Rh-negative and when they took her into delivery, they had to do a Cesarean Section. They accidently punctured her colon and the ether gas exploded and burnt her face.
My mother ended up in the hospital for 30 days recovering from all the mishaps. I spent 30 days with the closest neighbors who only spoke German and lived on a chicken and cattle ranch. After a month with them, I refused to speak to anyone. When my father picked me up and tried to impress me with a glazed donut, I wanted nothing to do with it, I only wanted a “b’loneya sanwitch”.
It was the beginning of many dysfunctions I experienced throughout my childhood. No one quite knew what to do with me and it was obvious they weren’t aware of most of it.